HOW FRANK ARE YOU?

Generally,human nature is to hesitate,when some one asks,you to tell,frankly,what you wish to say.This,is quite common,nothing wrong,in this.But,are you,feeling comfortable,by not being frank?

 

A good question,to ourself.We always wish to tell,frankly,what is in our mind.But,circumstances,situations,prevail,on our mind,and we try,to say,very little,or sometimes,nothing.

 

How do you,solve this.Difficult.But,nothing wrong in trying to say,frankly.It so,happens,that after a discussion,we feel,we should,have told frankly,facts.But,it becomes,late.so,decide,before,to tell frankly.Not,feel,bad,after the discussion,is over.

 

Better,be frank.That helps,one,so much.

NURTURE THE THOUGHTS OF REMAINING YOUNG

One gets older as each day passes.Then weeks,months,years roll by.

But,even then never fell that you have grown older.Feel you are younger,energetic,active,dashing.That thought itself is a driving force for you to lead a happy,contented life.Many feel they are old,unfit,inefficient.This thinking itself snaps all your creativity,good thoughts,able to go ahead,in life.

so,from childhood itself,make it a point to think you are young,energetic,capable.Also,do your works very meticulously,ably,efficiently.why to worry,cry,and feel inferior,if one door is closed.Just go to the next door,open,look around,make your life look,meaningful,beautiful.

That is how everyone of us must look at life.If not,it is you who fail,miss the bus,of a life.Never,ever miss a single opportunity in your life,when you come across.Grab the golden opportunity,do your most best.

Be very positive,fresh,active,energetic,dashing in your life.Then,your friends,colleagues,relatives would like you,love you,come to you to take your advice.

If you always keep a sad face,crying face,negative approach you will not be liked by anyone.They will avoid you.you then become isolated,alone.

Try to keep up in good,high spirits,pep yourself up.see,how friends,colleagues,relatives flock around you.

Finally nurture the thoughts of remaining young.

Be young,like young,do young in your thoughts,actions,always.

we want every one with young thoughts,good thoughts,positive thoughts.It will certainly make a wonderful world,around us.

STAY YOUNG IN YOUR THOUGHTS.

RESULTS & NOT REASONS

Today,in any profession or any business,one is expected to show results,as quickly as possible.

Then only you can survive in your profession or in any business.For getting results,one has to work very hard,with lot of concentration,devotion,dedication on the work assigned to you.Naturally each work needs,a certain time period,may be a week,a month,a quarter,a half year,a year,depending on the project you are assigned with.

 

suppose you do not plan well about your assignment,you end up with unexpected,complications,delays,unexpected,expenditures and finally,end up,in lot of complications.Project stands still.you are in a fix.

So,it is therefore very much necessary to study the pros and cons of the project very much in advance.Decide what way you want to carry out the project,then start working out the minutest details,of the execution,of the project,with a time frame,schedules.

If you do not achieve the expected,minimum results,you are naturally,out.

Then you start trying to shield yourself with umpteen reasons.In the process,you end up in more,complications.

So,try hard to show results,not in giving reasons,sometimes,very silly,reasons.

Give results & not reasons.

DO YOU WIN FRIENDS EASILY?

Winning friends is a art in itself.

Many of us like to have friends,but fail to win friends.Why?

There are many reasons.We should first understand the nature,behavior of a person before making him,friend.Our approach should be very soft,gentle,calm to make a friend.May be one may have to give sufficient time,to make the friend to know you well.

Many times it so happens,that a person with whom you want to make friend,may turn you down.

some times,some one approaches you willingly,to be your friend.So,it all depends on you,and the person with whom you want to make friendship.

Patience plays a big role in making friends.Many times,the person with whom you want to make friend,might misunderstand you,completely.You and that person might even quarrel,on very silly,clumsy issues.

counseling may also help you to a great extent.

So,it takes time to win friends.But,once you get a friend,see that you maintain very cordial,smooth,gentle,soft relationship.This way you win your friends.

Try,to have good,long lasting friends.

Thanks.

 

 

EXCUSE ME PLEASE

PLEASE DO READ THIS PAGE SLOWLY,COMPLETELY,WITHOUT ANY INTERRUPTION.

Many of us do a right or a wrong daily,in our routine life.RIGHT?

How do we react to a right,a wrong,or no reaction?

when ever we take a decision,or guide a person may be a male/female,we may be right/wrong.

This is quite common.No problem.

Problem,starts,when we doubt,suspect a male/female.we start imagining so many things.Instead of doubting,suspecting why not talk straight,with the person,and clear yourself?

Generally,very few of us,clear with a person,on whom,we have suspicion,doubt.Suspicion,doubt on a person is the root cause of all our problems.A country may have doubts,suspicion on another country.Reason/s may be innumerable.similarly,a person doubts,suspects another person.Reasons may be very childish,silly.

I talk to a person about a opinion,advice.He/she may/may not show response,reaction,at once.We do not take that lightly.we spend more time,energy,in thinking,why that he/she has not responded/reacted to you,positively.Every human being is having different ideas,life style,just like different fingers to our palm.

Just I want to share a example here.some one is working in a office.His boss calls,him and scolds him,for some laxity in work.That person starts giving lame excuses.Boss does not agree to lame excuses.In the mean while one of his colleagues,enters into the room,on some work.He sees that person getting kicks from boss.After some time,both come out.Both look at each other,become serious,and spend time in tension.can you guess the reason,for their tension?

Reason for tension?

Person A,thinks person B,is laughing at A.Also B thinks A is laughing and finally both A & B,are under un-necessary tension.

So,it is better to have direct talk,and clear one self.What is the use of just keeping tension,in self,and have stress.

so,just say “EXCUSE ME PLEASE”,and talk clearly,correctly,directly,and solve each other’s problems.

WHO TAKES CARE?

In this world there are very rich,rich,middle class,poor,very poor people.All want to survive.All want to meet their demands,requirements.They make all out efforts to take care of their necessities.

There are very rich people,who come to that position,from rags to riches.They start their life from rags.Born to very poor parents,poverty,ill health,illiteracy,all chasing them,life long.But,these people face all difficulties,miseries to achieve their goal,aim.At the end they win,to become very very rich people,with lot of respect,in society.

But,these very rich people never forget,their past life.They lead most simple,unassuming life.They have all comforts,luxuries at their beck and call.But,they never change.They have only one aim.To help,those who are very,very poor,help them financially,to get free food,free education,free clothing.

Now,there are very very poor people.But they have lot of self respect.They never like to take any financial help,from any one.They have a determination,will,to come up on their own.But,money becomes their constraint,in every step they put.so,who comes to their genuine helplessness?

There are these very very rich people who have lot of wealth,but they want their wealth,to reach,really deserving people.So,they form a trust,like a charitable trust,and pump in their wealth,for social causes.From these trusts these very,very poor people get their financial requirements,met.

 

But,what is to be seen,felt,is the self respect of these very,very poor people.In my life time,span of 64 years,I have come across many trusts which are run by very kind,good,philanthropists,who want each rupee to reach,really deserving candidates,for food,education,shelter,clothing.

Is it not a pleasure to see very,very rich people helping very,very poor people,but without any fanfare,remaining anonymous?

 

OK.Then who takes care of these kind,noble,good people?

 

GOD,takes care of them.

HAPPY NEW YEAR 2012.

Happy New Year 2012,is just four days from today.we all are awaiting the arrival of New Year,with lot of hope,expectations.Year 2011,has been so fruitful,to me.From January 01,2011,each day has been quite testing,challenging,and full of thrills,twists,all along from Jan 01,till today.

What we expect from the New Year 2012?

 

Before expecting anything from the New Year 2012,it is always better to ask ourselves,as to what do we do during 2012.Is it connected with our health,career,profession,commitments?It may be anything or may be every thing.But it better to work hard,with determination,concentration to get better improvement compared to 2011.

Many times we expect more,though we do less.It should be the other way.Work more,expect less.If this is followed,the results will automatically,encouraging.But,our human nature is try to work less,expect more pay,perks,incentives.Why?It is because of our own laziness,lethargy,we develop over a period of time,that we do not work with sincerity,focus our mind,heart on the crucial work.

If we work with total concentration on our aim,nothing can stop us in achieving our cherished goals.

 

Thanks,to all.