We say no when we do not know.That is quite normal.Nothing wrong in it.
But even if we say,no to some one,do we really try to know,what that person,was trying to say.Many times it so happens,that for any question,guidance we have a ready made answer.That answer is a very simple NO.
Instead of saying NO,can we not say,let me find out,let me know,so on.BY not knowing,by knowing,it is knowing about a place,subject,a person,is that not helpful.I have come across many people who have a fancy to simply say,NO to any question,that you ask.
Why this NO,is more frequent than KNOW?
Simple.To say,NO,no efforts are required.To say,KNOW,one has to take interest,effort to study about the topic,question,history,geography.KNOWing about,any thing,is always,better than not knowing.Better say,I KNOW,don’t say NO.
To know,please make efforts,to know a answer,to any problem.so that you can guide a person,who needs your advice.Simply by saying,no,you really lose good friends,also.
So,my request to you,is please try to avoid saying a blunt NO.Please do cultivate a habit of saying I KNOW,I WILL LET YOU KNOW.I WILL TRY TO KNOW.
you can see the real difference,in implementing,the above,exercise.
Please,do try.Get benefit.
Thanks.Your valuable comments,are welcome,please.