Winning friends is a art in itself.
Many of us like to have friends,but fail to win friends.Why?
There are many reasons.We should first understand the nature,behavior of a person before making him,friend.Our approach should be very soft,gentle,calm to make a friend.May be one may have to give sufficient time,to make the friend to know you well.
Many times it so happens,that a person with whom you want to make friend,may turn you down.
some times,some one approaches you willingly,to be your friend.So,it all depends on you,and the person with whom you want to make friendship.
Patience plays a big role in making friends.Many times,the person with whom you want to make friend,might misunderstand you,completely.You and that person might even quarrel,on very silly,clumsy issues.
counseling may also help you to a great extent.
So,it takes time to win friends.But,once you get a friend,see that you maintain very cordial,smooth,gentle,soft relationship.This way you win your friends.
Try,to have good,long lasting friends.